Hi, we are an LGBTQ+ couple in our 50s with a TikTok platform, a podcast and soon to be released book about how love is the truest, wildest, bravest thing we can do. We’re called The Transman and his Queen.

Rowan is a writer, speaker, and creator of the Transman and his Queen podcast. Devin is an accomplished trans content creator, actor, speaker, and podcast cohost.

We’re a trailblazing couple who defy labels and celebrate a life of our own design. Before we met, we each changed everything in our lives, came out at 50, and moved across the country to start over. We met as two women, then Devin transitioned FTM two years in our relationship. We share our journey through change, discovery, and the courage to be who we are and to dare to love in a world that so easily tells us not to. Our content covers the ideas of love before labels, our shared humanity, and finding our own truth and strength.

We support inclusive community, kindness, and a safe space for everyone.

  • "you two are so inspiring to the younger generation, never stop posting"

    TikTok comment June 2023

  • "mamma to a 12 y/o trans son here. It's so good to see representation!"

    TikTok comment May 2023

  • “This won the internet - Seeing queer elders gives me so much hope for the future”

    TikTok comment July 2023

  • "Seeing vids like this rly gives me hope that I can actually make it alive holy sh*t thank u so much <3"

    Tik Tok comment Aug 2023

  • "it makes me so happy to see older trans ppl, it gives me so much hope for the future!"

    TikTok comment Aug 2023

  • "I love seeing elders in the LGBTQIA+ community."

    TikTok comment Sep 2023

  • "I can't put into words how wonderful it is to see you"

    TikTok comment May 2023

  • "I have no words to describe the immense happiness I feel at seeing this gentleman. is definitely a wave of hope in the midst of such a hateful society."

    TikTok comment Feb ‘24

  • "You are the dad of every trans person on the planet now"

    TikTok comment Feb ‘24

  • "I'm a teenage girl dating a trans guy and seeing you makes me so happy... so refreshing to see trans in older age people in love and flourishing"

    TikTok comment Feb ‘24