Hi, we are a vibrant LGBTQ+ couple in our 50s with a TikTok platform, a podcast and soon to be released book about how love is the truest, wildest, bravest thing we can do. We’re called The Transman and his Queen.

Rowan is a writer, speaker, and creator of the Transman and his Queen podcast. Devin is a respected trans content creator, actor, speaker, and podcast cohost.

We’re a couple who defy labels and celebrate a life of our own design. Before we met, we each changed everything in our lives, came out at 50, and moved across the country to start over. We met as two women, then Devin transitioned FTM two years into our relationship. Together, we share our ongoing journey through change, identity, and the courage it takes to live—and love—authentically in a world that often says otherwise. Through our content, we explore love before labels, the power of personal truth, and the strength we all carry to create a life that is beautiful and true.

We support inclusive community, kindness, and a safe space for everyone.